I have been a sex blogger for almost seven years now. This means I have tried dozens of pleasure objects, but I should confess only a few of them are worthy of a special place in my favorites’ drawer. I have noticed that all of them share 5 features that I would love to spell out to you because when buying a sex toy we just want one thing: that the new addition becomes our best friend ever.
Ergonomic
First, a great vibrator must adapt to your body. This means that it should be easy for you to hold it, not very heavy, and nice when it comes to introducing it to your genitalia instead of an object full of angles and straight lines, I would rather choose one with a round shape, specifically if it is external and I must hold it with my palm. If it stimulates my G spot then I like a curvy toy that helps penetration. When possible, I also mind about the material. There are lots of them, but the most pleasant for my skin is body-safe silicone. It is not very cold and it feels like a caress when I move it smoothly all along my anatomy.
Multi-speed
You might think that when talking about the power I mean that it needs to drive my clit crazy, but that is not what I look for! The perfect vibrator has several programs and intensities and starts with low vibration. By pressing a button the vibration becomes more and more powerful and I can decide whether I want to take things slowly or dive into climax. This feature is very important because our clits have different sensibilities and not everybody craves a very intense vibration. For some playing with the toy and enjoying the in crescendo, stimulation is important. Patterns can also be interesting, especially for those who are edging lovers.
Waterproof
You will agree with me when i say, it is not about the orgasm, it is about the experience. You can use your vibrator with your partner, alone, in the bed, in the kitchen, even in the car! Or you could also take the action underwater. When you do so, the sensation changes. It is a whole new world! There are two extra elements: the temperature of the water and how the contact feels.
If you have never tried using a sex toy in the shower or the bathtub, I would highly recommend you do so. However, you need to be sure that your new friend is waterproof and dry it properly after the bath.
Rechargeable
I named my first vibrator Rosita, which means Pinky. It was fluor pink and I cum thousands of times with it after the breakup I went through. But Rosita had a problem: it needed batteries. You can imagine that thousands of orgasms mean lots of batteries. In fact, in one of my first Instagram posts, I was holding a bunch of dead batteries. It is not sustainable for the planet nor for your economy.
The truth is vibrators that are rechargeable can be more expensive, but cheaper long term. Also, it is very likely that the device is sealed, so it can be used underwater. Nowadays, most of these use a magnetic charger and it is super easy to give your toy energy again and again and again.
Silent
I have orgasmed with really weird objects. Some of them were funny and others had very interesting features I wanted to try. However, I cannot stand when I must review a noisy vibrator. It drives me up the wall. Imagine: I am in the bed trying to have a moment, I touch myself, my body is ready, I am all worked up… and then I turn on the toy. It sounds like a Boeing 747 landing between my legs. A noisy device can cut off your focus and distract you, and we do not want that. We do not need that when we are about to enjoy ourselves. It should be just you.
Now that you know all this, you deserve a sneak peek into my drawer. I can tell you that one of the toys that accomplish all 5 must-haves is The Shark Emojibator. It is a rabbit vibrator that stimulates both your clit and vagina. This pleasure object does not just vibrate, it has an air inflation technology that I totally enjoy.
Now my question is, how many of your sex toys could be in my favorites’ drawer? I know it can be too much, but the truth is that the market is full of options and it is actually not very difficult to find a pleasure object that works for you. Remember: ergonomic, multi-speed, waterproof, rechargeable and silent. Whenever you want to buy a vibrator, bear in mind the features to make the right choice. Finding the one will rock your world!
By Thais Duthie